Andale

The game show "Who Wants to Be a Millionaire" was an incredibly popular show when it first came out. But I am almost certain that the show "Who Wants a Woman with  Children" would blow it out the water.  Of course this show doesnt really exist but if it did...wow. Many men are as opposed to dating women with children as they are to eating sharp glass, and we have to wonder why. So what if she has a little one who existed long before you brought your hormone driven self around, is that a crime? Absolutely not. So why is it so hard to find a good man who is willing to take on the challenge of dating a women with "baggage." Most of us fellas only want the female. Period. The kid or kids (have mercy) can sometimes complicate matters and make it almost impossible to truely get to know the girl that has caught our eye. The last thing a new boyfriend wants to hear from a snotty nosed eleven year old is.."you aint my daddy."

As men, we dont just take on the relationship of the lady, we also assume the responsibility of being a dad to these "new" kids. Thats a huge step. Maybe more than we bargain for. So I guess thats why these women tend to be single, they are waiting for the RIGHT MAN who is willing to step up to the challenge and be there for their children as well. Any single mother would tell you that these men are in short supply. As one woman put it, "Jesus is my boyfriend." I feel ya sis, but lets be real, it gets hard sometimes. Be strong ladies. God will provide you a good man who will exceeed your greatest expectations. Hold on. I say, hold on.

What are your thoughts?